The following are some signs that a person may have a gambling problem:
Gambling for longer periods of time-spending long or increasing amounts of time at gambling venues
Preoccupation with gambling-constantly thinking about and preparing for gambling
“Chasing losses”-gambling more often and playing higher stakes to “win back” lost money
Frequent, unexplained absences-from home or work and undue secrecy
Gambling to escape from obligations or life’s daily pressures
Growing debt from gambling
Lying
Criminal activity to finance gambling
Neglecting family/personal needs-e.g., nutrition, sleep, schooling or general well-being
Intimacy issues / emotional & physical distance
Children exhibit guilt and shame (overvalue money materialism)
Child takes role of pseudo-parent (loyalty to parents vs. blowing the whistle)
Problems with substance abuse (drugs and alcohol)